Inner Voice or Fear?

That subtle nagging that you can't escape, yes, you know what I'm talking about. That small feeling in the pit of your stomach that tells you that "something" isn't quite right. That same thing that after all truths have unfolded you say to yourself..."I JUST KNEW IT."

Unfortunately, we don't always find out about the truth until well after all of the lessons have been played out. After all of the pieces of the puzzle come together and you find yourself broken and bruised from being taken advantage of.

When you're in a relationship, romantic or otherwise, and there is something inside that tells you something just isn't right, or, you find that you have trust issues that keep playing over in your head. Often times you dismiss these things as your own paranoid issues. You continue to just dismiss the things that don't sit right with you because you're either worried it's YOU, or you don't want to face what's being plastered right in front of your face.

Let's say your other half is out of town for work. You contact them more then once with no luck. The later it gets, you sit by your phone waiting for it to do something...anything. Finally at 11:30 pm you get that much waited response in a text saying..sorry late dinner, I'm pooped call you in the morning. Ok, eyebrow raises and sirens are going off inside your head like a mad person. Then, after a few moments you say to yourself..hmmm, must have been a really important meeting to last so late. Denying it works for you. It settles those sick butterflies down and you're good again now that you've dismissed it as your own paranoid self esteem issues. Of course, in the meantime you beat yourself up emotionally and mentally that you shouldn't "worry" so much.

Another situation you may find yourself in is that you're in a romantic relationship and the other person tells you how much they love and adore you. How much they want to see you and they miss you so very much. All the while, they go days without calling or weeks without wanting or needing to see you. Once again, you wonder what is it that is wrong with you? Nothing. It's the other persons inability to speak their mind and let you know that they "just aren't that into you".

Now lets address those butterflies in the pit of your stomach. Chances are they are there for a reason. They aren't just random monarchs trying to find their way to the border. This feeling in the pit of your stomach is your inner voice trying to tell you something just isn't right about the situation. It's not going to be some loud booming voice saying..."THEY ARE LYING..WAKE UP". It's normally very subtle. Subtle enough that you can drown it out with your own reasoning to make yourself feel better. Those eery flutters, well it's the same feelings you get when you yourself deceive...so take note the next time that you're not being truthful or you fib of how it feels inside. I bet once you connect the two together, you'll understand exactly what I'm saying.

Sometimes, however, it is in fact your own paranoia. This is when you have to determine between your inner voice and your fears. That isn't always a very easy trick either. Your fears are often very strong and can send your mind into a frantic frenzy of "what if's". That's when you have to watch for the inconsistencies with the other person, or behavior that is out of the norm. When you have outside factors actually showing you and coupled with the inner ickies, you're more then likely being deceived. This is when you have to be truthful with yourself in seeing all of the signs that are being shown to you.

It's taken me a lot of years of real soul searching and learning how to quite my mind to tell the difference between my fears and my inner voice. And, even now, sometimes, my fears get the best of me. When I can't tell the difference, I will wait it out a while. Chances are that there will be outside validation that will either confirm or deny my feelings. More then likely, the person will trip up and be left scrambling to cover their tracks. When that happens it's helps you to distinguish the difference between your fears and your inner voice. At this point, it truly is time to face the truth and the facts being presented. Often times however, by the time this happens, it's too late and we've already been hurt and deceived.

The important thing to learn from any situation where you've been deceived is to become aware and watch for feelings and signs, and don't dismiss them. Remember, people are humans, they lie and fib. But you don't have to be the one on the other end being taken advantage of due to the other persons issues with being truthful.

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Importance of Alignment

I’m certain that everyone reading this has in some way or another heard of The Law of Attraction. The Law of Attraction says that our thoughts (both conscious and unconscious) dictate the reality of our lives. In essence, if you really want something and truly believe it’s possible, then you’ll create the reality of it in your life. However, what people don’t realize is that by putting a lot of attention or thought into something you DON’T want means that you’ll also attract that in your life.

All thoughts create a feeling. All feeling is what creates the energy that turns into the “magnet” to which we attract into our lives. Therefore, for manifestation purposes it’s very important to be aware of our thoughts, both positive and negative.

Fear and worry are very powerful feelings. If you allow your thoughts of fear and worry to create an uneasy emotion within us, then that is exactly what you’ll draw into your life. Un-Ease. When you have un-ease within then you are not aligning yourself with the positive things you wish to attract. For instance, say you are manifesting a new car into your life. You send out the thoughts and feelings of wanting the new vehicle. However, soon you start to worry that, ok, what if I get a new car then I get laid off tomorrow and can’t pay for it? Worrying about the “what if’s” in this case just mis-aligned you with your intention. It’s as though you’ve sent a mixed message to the Universe and now the Universe has not idea if in fact you truly want the intention you sent out there.

Aligning yourself prefectly with your intentions is the key to manifestation. By being aware of your thoughts you can indeed master this alignment process. It’s a matter of paying attention to where your thoughts flow, and the feelings those thoughts create within you. When you’re feeling upset or un-easy inside try to trace to what thoughts you have going on that create this un-ease. Once you’re able to pinpoint those thoughts, then make a conscious effort to change or turn around those thoughts.

One way of working with this is before you truly set your intention, imagine yourself living it first. Take a short trip into your mind and imagine as if you already have what it is you’re manifesting into your life. Take special note during your trip as to how having what you want makes you feel. If you feel any type of mixed emotions, fear or second thoughts into what you’re manifesting, then you need to adjust what it is you’re wanting to attract. Keep doing this until the object of your desire creates only positive feelings.

Let’s say you set your intentions on a brand new Mercedes-Benz SLR Roadster with a sticker price of $495,000.00. Imagine yourself owning it. Would you be worry free and happy with this? Would you be worried everytime you drove it that you’d get a scratch or a ding or would the thought of that car payment every month give you that small sick feeling in the pit of your stomach? These emotions are exactly what will tell the Universe NO, I don’t really want this in my life. Perhaps you should downgrade your desire a bit to something that is in the range of $30,000.00 then. Try that on for size and see how it feels. If that brings feelings of ease within, then you are learning to align yourself with your intention. Thus giving the Universe a crisp, clear signal of exactly what you want. I know this is an exagerated example, but you get my point of placing yourself into the scenerio before you begin your manifestation.


Now that you’ve learned to watch your thoughts and pay attention to the emotions they create you can align yourself with only those thoughts that bring positive balance and ease within. If it takes a few times tweaking or changing those intentions, that’s fine too. The key is to create the alignment by having only positive feelings attached to what it is you’re manifesting. Once you have that total alignment, hold on tight, cause the Universe has a way of working very quickly!
Happy Manifesting!

~THETAHEALING~

Imagine being healed of your long time mental, emotional or physical illness instantaneously….


Conscious and unconscious thoughts are the very fibers that create and make up our lives. Long held issues, fears and worries are all contributing factors that create dis-ease within us on all levels. Whether it’s emotional or mental issues that hold us back from our highest potential or, physical illness that create pain and suffering, these are all a result of the detrimental beliefs that are seeded deep with in us. Identifying, changing and eliminating these beliefs allow us to free our energy and create the healings that allow us to live happier and healthier lives.


ThetaHealing, founded by Vianna Stibal in 1995 is a simple technique that has been proven to contribute to immediate healing of not only emotional and mental but actual physical dis-ease of our bodies. This process proved itself to be valid when Vianna witnessed her own healing from a very advanced cancer that was on it’s way to destroying her right femur. By sharing and teaching this technique worldwide, it’s now available to anyone and everyone.


Acute pain, obesity, depression, hearing issues and chronic headaches are just a very few illnesses that I myself have been a witness to healing with Theta. I have just been amazed at just how very simple and fast this technique is. If I hadn’t witnessed this with my own eyes and in my own life, I would never believe it.


I’m excited to announce that I am now a Certified Practitioner of ThetaHealing. And, for a short time I’m offering sessions of Theta at a reduced cost. Healing doesn’t have to cost thousands of dollars. This technique is available to everyone at the low introductory rate of $60 per session (1-hour session). All sessions that are booked with me from now until January 31, 2009 will be honored at this reduced rate. This is $25 below the normal charge of $85.00. Book your session now and all sessions regarding the particular illness will be at $60 per session.


This healing technique was recently highlighted by FOX News. I’ve attached a link below so that you can see the report done on this healing modality.


Contact me today for more details on ThetaHealing. You owe it to yourself to have a life free of pain and suffering. Allow myself and ThetaHealing to help you achieve a happy, healthier life.


THETAHealing Part 1
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=utE9bCnMWJs

THETAHealing Part 2
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_EibwlNQKiU

Love, Peace and Serenity,
KathyAka BrigitWhispers