~CHANGE OF SEASON~

Autumn used to be a time that really depressed me. I would think to myself, I can’t believe summer is over already. Or, here we go into another long, hard cold winter But with everything else my opinion of Autumn has changed.

I look at this season as a time for things to come to a natural end. In order for life to take on it’s ever changing existence, change must occur. The physical changes we see around us in nature are proof of how things must end so they can be
born a new. But, the important endings for me are more of an internal thing.

Past patterns, unproductive ways of being, even my likes and dislikes die and change. I love to take this time to reflect on my changes. To really go inside and review what doesn’t work for me any longer. What thoughts, feelings and beliefs I hold inside that inhibit my growth and rebirth. Letting go and recreating on an internal level are all a part of this season for me.

Life for me is all about being reborn again and again. Growing more at the soul level with each
rebirth. Autumn seems to be when this begins for me. The death of the old so that the new may
once again blossom.

Change is one thing in this life that IS certain. So now instead of fighting it I accept it. Instead of
dreading it, I look forward to it. By embracing my ability to change and recreate myself I open
myself up to the Universe with the understanding that ANYTHING is possible as long as I’m open to change.

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Psychic Tarot Reading - $ 2.49 PER MINUTE. Just mention this special BEFORE we go into hire and I will be more then happy to reduce my rates before hire mode begins.

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Full Year Forecast Tarot Reading - $ 40.00. In depth Month by Month Report of the full 12 months ahead. This report is done by email only.

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Full Year Numerology Report - $40.00. In depth Report offering insight into your own personal Life Path based on your Life Path numbers. This report is extremely in depth and forecasts out for a full 24 months. This report is done by email only.

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Learn Tarot - $150.00. A one on one learning experience into the depths of the cards. This course is designed for the student to develop a personal relationship with each and every card. Learn how to listen to the cards as they speak to you and bring you in tune with your inner voice. This course runs approximately 6 months from start to finish. This can be done through one on one sessions or emails sessions. Sessions are weekly or bi-weekly depending on the schedule of the student and myself.

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Psychic Development - $ 100.00 A one one course that develops your ability to open your birth given psychic abilities and intuitive nature. We are all born with this gift, it's just a matter of tuning into and learning to control it. This course runs approximately 5-7 sessions from beginning to end. This course can be done through in person sessions or telephone sessions. Sessions are weekly or bi-weekly depending on the schedule of student and myself.

If you would like more details, feel free to email me and I will answer any questions you may have.

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~THE CHOICE IS YOURS PART II~

One issue that I find a lot of people dealing with is how to remain in a semi-relationship or friendship relationship with a soul mate that is not longer interested in pursuing a romantic relationship with you.
I always answer that question by asking a question......Are you remaining in their life hoping for some type of outcome? What is your expectation of them in a friendship role? Are you hoping by staying their friend they will return in the future?. Are you wanting to hear, I'm so sorry for leaving..I love you and will do anything to make this work? If your answer is yes...then for the sake of your own growth, you can't have the SM in your life in any capacity.
I see it often where the "runner" will return to want to be your "friend", soon after they've left the relationship.....because they know they miss communicating with you, but they aren't ready to offer you the true relationship that you're wanting. And, the one that is broken hearted "thinks" that by allowing this friendship to be, will eventually bring the SM back. Well, you may not be entirely wrong. It could, but more then likely it's a premature return. Too soon that the person running hasn't done any growing. And, if allowed too soon then you'll find yourself going through the same pattern and cycle once again.
What will happen is you'll try to maintain this arm's length type distance with your emotions. Then, when you have communication and you didn't hear what you wanted you will find yourself right back to square one. Crying, unbalanced, angry, etc... you'll be overcome with all sorts of emotions that just send you for a loop again. Throwing you right back into what seems like a sea of emotions with no life jacket to keep you afloat.
Every time you experience this upset, your growth stagnates. You'll find you harden somewhere in your heart and all the work you've been doing to find your self love will be washed away, yet again. Then, you'll have to go through the process of trying to find your balance and the place where you're not hurting, crying and angry 24 hours a day.
Now I'm not saying that a day won't come when you can't be a friend to your SM. But, in my opinion this comes further down the road when you're already healed and to the point where you don't have any expections or want anything from the SM other then simply their presence as a friend in your life. That day will come, even though in the beginning it seems like just a fantasy and so far away. When that day comes you will recognize it as REAL unconditional love for yourself and for the other person.
My end point here is this; You must give yourself the love, support and time for healing. You must put yourself and your emotional well being first and foremost. If you don't allow yourself to have the proper healing then you could find yourself in the pain and suffering for a very long time. Walking away from the situation as it is, is your FIRST and most IMPORTANT step to unconditional love for yourself and the SM.
Once you are at this place you will find one of two things. Either the SM has ALSO found this place of pure love and you could have the opportunity to try the relationship again as two souls that have grown to a place that allows the connection to work, or, you will have grown so much that you will not want the romantic relationship back and the new doors for another SM will open. This time drawing a person to you that is more at your growth level thus allowing you the opportunity to have the healthy SM relationship that you deserve.

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~THE CHOICE IS YOURS~

As a reader the most frequent situations I'm asked for help on is, yes, you've guessed it...RELATIONSHIPS. It seems that a lot of the clients that cross my path are all experiencing very similar situations. They have had a run in with a "soul mate connection". More then not, this SM has crossed their path, to awakened something deep within my client then bolted from their life. Leaving my client open, confused and raw of a wound that seems to not want to heal. Which, in my opinion, is exactly what that SM was supposed to do. To touch something so deep inside that you have no other option but to feel it, accept it, and learn from it.

The forefront question of the situation is always ..."If this person is my soul mate, then when will they return"?

I wish my answer could be just that simple. There are many different reasons this connection occurred. These connections never come into play for the single reason of the relationship. I see time and time again the client being bound to this situation (of their own accord) just because they've been told this person is their "soul mate". The REAL reason this person came into their life is the lessons they bring about . The most important lesson is finding the unconditional love for SELF. To realize that they must learn to love themselves MORE then they love anyone else or any thought of being in a "soul mate" relationship. After all, how can someone truly love anyone else , if they don't truly love themselves? That answer is simple, it can't be done.

When you finally choose to look at the connection from a different perspective is when you can finally start to heal the wounds it left. When you decide to nurture yourself and be true to yourself is when you finally begin to break the chains of the connection...the chains you placed on yourself.

The connections are always a 2-way street. BOTH parties are faced with lessons. Because God gave us all free will we can decide to face the lessons or we can turn our backs on them. Eventually finding that somewhere down the line you will be faced with the same lesson, perhaps on an even more painful level. But mark my words...the lessons WON'T go away until you decide to face and learn them.

You may have the chance to be in an actual romantic relationship with the soul mate depending on the growth of both people involved. If while you are apart you both grow...then the paths may cross again, allowing you both to try the cycle once again. If both people have done the work then there is great probability the relationship will work. If not, then you will just repeat the same pattern again. Scrapping that scab off the wound, leaving it exposed to the open air to experience the pain all over. You can continue to cover it with a band aide, but until you decide to TREAT the wound..it can't ever heal.

Treating the wound means choosing to finally stop covering it up and actually nurturing it back to good, strong emotional health. And that nurturing starts with YOU. What I mean by that is CHOOSING (and YES IT IS YOUR CHOICE) to finally say ENOUGH. Freeing yourself from the illusion of the fantasy of the "connection". Deciding to stop trying to control the relationship...because face it YOU HAVE NO CONTROL. Moving forward in your growth and not concerning yourself with what the other part of the connection is doing on their path. Their wound(s) are their own to heal...not yours.

Once you finally choose to see the connection as this...is when you can truly free yourself from the pain of it all. When you see this is about YOU and your growth your life opens to many new doors. And, as a result of your growth the Universe brings you more connections and more lessons that reflect more of the "New" you that you are becoming.

I am here to help you. Together we can take a look at your choices and get you past the pain and moving forward toward your healing!

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